You are definately not alone hun, :hugs: and I had a caesar - go figure! We use heaps of lube and it's still really painful. I had abnormal cells and treatment for it before Izzy was born, and was due for a pap smear ages ago, but even at my 6 week check up the Dr said to wait a bit. She's just turned 6 mths and I just had my pap smear and I was really worried because I figured it would really kill but it wasn't too bad. I also asked him about the pain I'm having and he couldn't give me an answer seeing as she didn't even come out of there! From the ladies on here I'm assuming it has to do with breastfeeding too, and it is slowly getting better. Sorry waffling on now.
Good luck hun, I'm sure with time things will get better - although maybe never exactly the same?!