I try not to ask for help very much. If I need it I may ask my mum. But if I ask my mum too frequently it starts a problem with my DH who complains that his family don't get equal time with their grandchild.

I think I'm in trouble again this week because I didn't invite them up to mind our son while I had another scan.

It's not that I don't appreciate so many offers of help but I feel like they think I cannot cope.

So I would rank my supportability as probably 2/10.