If my DD grows up to be very religious (given i am not, but the same would be true if she grew up to not be religious when i was) i would not question her so long as she was happy. The same as if she grew up to be homosexual (which i'm not) or very attached to material wealth (which i'm not) or incredibly interested in her appearance (guess what, i'm not! lol!).

To me the relationship a person has between themself and their Faith/God/Allah/Source/Love - whatever they know It to be - is incredibly personal. More personal even than their relationship with their partner. It is NONE of my business what my DD believes unless it is causing her pain and making her deeply unhappy (i.e. if she was in an abusive relationship, which God tends not to go in for). Every person, IMO, has a right to their beliefs. It is easy for me, because i do not believe my way is the only or right way (and i understand why those who do believe that DO believe it - i.e. the quran, bible and torah all state it to be the case, i'm not implying the belief is baseless) so there is a lot of wiggle-room for me. DD could believe a lot of things without it overtly challenging me. I don't have the answers, i don't know the truth, part of the gift i give her by having her at all is the opportunity to go out into the world and see if SHE can make sense of it.

Oscaroscar i was raised by non-relgious parents but had 2 Christian phases, one when i was 8-9 and one when i was 19-20. I began asking "but why do they believe that?" when i was 4 though. My father is an engineer and he demanded i explain my beliefs but loved me despite his inability to understand (it was his probing which highlighted to me the fact that i was "pretending" as Limeslice put it). My mother regarded religion as a crutch, because of HER life experiences, but i know she didn't necessarily think it a worthless one because she included a psalm and a reading from the book of revelations in her otherwise Humanist funeral plan to comfort those friends she had who were Christian.

Bx