It is devastating for the children too. My DD cried for weeks, every night she would talk to my belly and kiss bubba good night. When I came home from hospital she couldn't understand why I didn't bring our baby home. I found being open with them about Emmanuels death helped and answering their questions even though it brought me to tears every time.

Regards,
Dianne
Emmanuel born sleeping @24wks
Trisomy 13