It is very hard and the comments that people make often don't help. They often talk about next time or tell you how common it is and it can feel like they are minimizing your loss.

Remember that they often just don't know what to say and are trying to be positive, so don't be too hard on them. I didn't talk about it with people who I didn't think understood. I just said that I didn't want to talk about it and people were fine with that.

I'm glad you have your hubby to support you. Look after each other.