Thank you all so much for your messages. It means so much. And I think you're so right about the people that don't understand... I try not to get upset with them... i guess it's more just a trigger to let out my own upset sometimes.

After I posted last night I went back to bed... next to snoring hubby! In the end i kicked him so much he woke up. And I had a huge bawl and he just held me and we talked. And he was wonderful. I am very lucky.

So I'm exhausted after little sleep, seem to have some kinda cold/flu thing (will that mean they can't do the D&C?), but i come in here and read your messages and it warms my heart like you wouldn't believe... or maybe you would now I think about it. I'm sending you all big hugs back.

Oh, and still no signs of a natural miscarriage, I even got to feel nauseous at dinner... talk about adding insult to injury!

I just braved the conversation with my mother-in-law (she knew, but very little detail) and it went pretty well. Now i just want to get through telling work tomorrow. Wish me luck, and I'll carry those hugs with me all day.