thank you for the posts and hugs. The d&c went well - such a relief to get it out of the way.

we told friends yesterday. Also harder than I thought it would be. I think I thought i was coping, and then i decided maybe I wasn't. So now i'm just trying to get sleep and shake off a nasty cough/cold that's trying to bring me down. So it's off to doona-land with chocolate fairies to help.