Thanks for the posts - Tara, my heart goes out to you. I would have thought the same if I were you... 13 weeks... That must have been awful for you. And I agree, it does help to know that others feel the same.

Well last night I saw my sibs-in-law. The miscarriage was the elephant in the room that nobody mentioned. I was so sad afterwards. I thought i'd at least get hugs... from 3 people I got only one hug! I guess that's not too bad (better than none?)... I just didn't realise it would be like that. Learning curve huh. So I thought I'd come here, because there's a plentiful supply of hugs.

I'm doing lots of "changing things". Maybe if I make my house look different, I'll feel different? I have a feeling it's not quite that simple, but I have to do something. I'm just impatient, I want to be a few months (or however long it will take) and feeling ok... I just want to get away from myself and my own misery sometimes
Well I went back to work today. It was ok, but i guess it brings it home... life goes on.. and my work just doesn't seem as interesting as usual. Funny huh.

I never knew. When I heard someone had a miscarriage... I just didn't realise... I never knew the pain.