Hi belfie

I'm so sorry for your loss. I recently lost my little one too and I am still struggling to deal with it. Until I found the girls at BB I was a real mess! Life just seems so unfair sometimes and to make it worse you reach out to friends and family for support and sometimes you dont get that support that you need. That's why I logged onto BB - my friends reacted in a similar way. All expressing their sympathy then finishing it off with "better luck next time" "try not to get too upset, just look at this as a practice run for the real thing"(???) "nature knows best" etc. None of these things really helped me much! I think until you experience a loss yourself you dont really know how awful it is and unfortunately if your friends have not lost then they will not truly understand what you are going through. Try not to get angry or upset with them, they just dont understand what you are going through right now.

The girls on BB will give you much support to help you through this difficult time - we know exactly how you are feeling and we all feel your pain with you.

Let yourself be angry and upset and cry as much as you need to

big hugs,
Fi