StarrySky, I am so sorry for your loss Take time to grieve for your precious angel and I hope you can find loads of support here to get you through. Take care :hugs:
Thank you again everyone, having a bad day today, last week seems like a nightmare, still having to ring people and tell them im not pg anymore, i feel sorry for them because no one knows what to say, but i can do it now without sobbing my way through it, deep breaths.......
a lot of people have asked me (or rather told me) to try again, you can always have another one, which is a bit heartless i feel,.
to tell the truth the thought of going through all that again scares the **** out of me! DP isnt keen either atm.
not to mention the whole ttc process, its all a bit heart rending, i think i will buy some condoms!
anyway, my bleeding stopped 2 days after d&c, then this morning i woke up with blood in my knickers, not a lot but has been all day, is this normal? i dont think i have af, not yet anyway....
I think it would be continued bleeding from the D&C - I bled (just watery pink stuff, very light) for a week after mine. My FS explained that it does take a while for hormone levels to go down enough for AF to arrive - and this will rarely happen before 4 weeks.
Bad days come and go. In time you'll find that you have more good days than bad... for me now, the bad days are caused by other things. I'll get upset/angry at my friends losing their babies than still be upset over losing mine... But it does take time to get to that point.
Would it be possible for your DH to help with the phone calls? Mine did most of that for me - cancelled my appointments, made new ones, told work. My work place were wonderful and the people that needed to know (admin type people) were told, and one of my supervisors told the people that he knew were my support group at work... It did make it so much easier to go back because of that.
I think I'm babbling. As hard as it is right now, know that it does get better in time. But be gentle on yourself and don't beat up on yourself for having a bad day. You need to get through them before you get to the better days which are ahead - I promise!
Take care, and keep posting - getting it all out, talking about it, processing your feelings - it all helps.
Take time to grieve for your precious angel and I hope you can find loads of support here to get you through. Take care :hugs:
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but i can do it now without sobbing my way through it, deep breaths.......
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