Hi Natters. I am so sorry for the loss of your baby. It is the most painful experience and please try to be kind to yourself.

I lost Nathaniel around 15 weeks but did not find out until the 20 week scan. I have since looked through my diary a 100 times to try and work out what I was doing around this time. I worked a tradeshow for 1 day where I lifted boxes and was on my feet all day and I remember being thirsty. When I am rational I know this event is not related, but at other times I stress that I put too much pressure on my body that day. We all do it, mainly because there is often no known reason or cause for our M/Cs.

What you are going through it natural but you need to try your best not to blame yourself. Take care.