My husband and I are having trouble making a decision and was hoping to get some advice from all of you:
We are finalising our little Emily's gravesite plaque and don't know which date to put on it?
We know that she died on the 11th of October inside me, but she wasn't born until the 14th of October after being induced. We don't know which of these two dates to put on there? The day she died? Or the day she was born and when we got to hold her and spend time with her?
I suppose typically you visit a grave on the day of their death? But the 14th does have more meaning for us...
If you have had a similar dilema or if you could give us some advice on what you think, please let me know.
Thanks so much!
PS We are starting to feel a bit better, even though I still feel sad every day. I am trying to look at the positive things that Emily brought into our lives with her short existence. We still miss her so much. Thanks again for all your support on the site.