Hi Doza,

I am really glad to hear you and your hubby are trying to see the positive, although it is really hard to do sometimes. You will always miss Emily, and she will always be part of you.

About her gravesite, I guess its personal preference. But we know Nicholas died on Sunday 3rd September but we say he was born sleeping on Tuesday 5th September. I guess to us he was still alive inside me until that time, and we still had hope that the drs were wrong right up until the second he was born - crazy I know! Technically Emily was born on the 14th October, and I guess she was still with you until that time.

Big :hugs: for you.

Mel