Joselyn, I'm so very sorry for not responding to you but I somehow missed it.
What a terrible loss, I am so very sorry. I can't believe doctors don't routinely check for IC when it seems to be so common. Perhaps OBs should be required to read through these theads as part of their training to fully understand that it is very common and a very important test to do - and really only takes a few seconds to check!

Your farewell to your beautiful daughter sounds lovely and I'm sure your garden will flourish every day.

My heart is breaking to hear that you lost both parents as well and I am sending you my love and the biggest hug possible I really miss my mum and think of her everyday but I especially long for her these days. There is nothing quite like a mum's hug is there? I am so glad you have a loving and supportive family and husband to help get you through these sad days and if you ever need to talk, I am here for you.

Good luck with the TTC journey. I have found it takes alot of courage to start again but I am certain we will both be blessed with a baby to take home and love forever. As much as I just want to collapse in a heap, you're right - we have to pick ourselves up and keep going for the sake of our parents and angel babies. I would love to think our babies are playing together as we speak... what a wonderful, comforting thought.

Diana xx