Mishy & Teagz,
I am so very sorry for the loss of your precious angesl.
If you and your DH/DF feel you want another baby... don't let other's opinions stop you for TTC. After I lost Noah I was told I could start TTC from my first regular AF cycle, but to wait a year for the mental side of it all because they wanted me to get past Noah's first anniversary before trying again.
I took on board the medical side and from my first regular AF, DH and I started TTC again. We conceived Harrison on my 3rd cycle. It was difficult at first emotionally, because in a way I felt like I was betraying Noah... and Harrison was also due 12 days before Noah's 1st anniversary. It really was a bittersweet moment when I first got that BFP. DH & I were over the moon though, and now we're blessed with the most amazing little guy! I believe that Harrison helped me through my grief as my DH & I tried for 14 months for Noah... then we lost him. We both ached for a baby that we could bring home and hold in our arms. I am happy that we had Harrison when we did, he brought joy to us after we had so much sorrow.

Thinking of you both