The bloods and stuff they took from me when it happened came back that i didn't have any infection or anything like that. The tests they did/doing on the placenta and our little angel won't be available for another 3-4 weeks and i couldn't get another appointment until the end of feb because my doctor is on holidays. so another 9 weeks or so before we find out anything even if it more than likely just the sex of our baby. We were told that 99.9% of the time a cause is not found as to why a misscarriage occurs.
Sounds like the story of my life at the moment! But luckily I've managed to jag an appointment at the begining of Jan for all our tests, but it still feels like a billion years away. I can't even imagine waiting til the end of Feb!
I guess we know that it's nothing our bodies/we could have caused, as bittersweet as it is.

I hope you have a Merry Christmas and plenty of good luck for 2009!