Hi Stolen's Angel
I am so sorry for you loss, it is a heart wrenching journey for you and your DH. You will both grieve in very different ways, particularly you as you were the one carrying the baby. After all 3 of my m/c's I always felt like someone had whipped the carpet out from under my feet and I had fallen flat on my back. You start to plan things, like the winnie the pooh nursery, and then all of a sudden that road has a great big brick wall at the end of it and you stop so suddenly.
We can all relate to what those people who have never been through any of this say and that is why so many of us are here, because each and everyone of us know what you are going through in some kind of way.
Take care of yourself and your family.