Scooby I don't think it's far fetched at all.

When I lost my first baby many years ago at 10 weeks pregnant I didn't cope very well with it at all. I went through a very, very black period for quite some time.

A clairvoyant I saw, as well as my husbands aunt (who is a strong psychic) both told me that our baby was a little girl and that she would come back into our lives when the time was right.

Seven years later our daughter was born and I believe that what they said is true...
I'm really sorry for your loss scooby and I hope you find a way to make peace.