Meredith
I am so sorry...I totally get everything you have said...I never got any answers as to why I lost my babies...all the testing came back clear...not a single hint at what it could be. I hope you get some answers and as for family and friends...they just don't get it do they? I ended up being really blunt with people in the end..."so I'm guessing I haven't heard from you for ages because you didn't know what to say about us losing another baby"...harsh but felt good and allowed for some very 'open' communication!
Anytime you want to talk, vent,scream...I'm here...you couldn't say anything that I haven't said or thought at some point! You have every right to feel the way you are feeling...look after YOU!!!