How do we cope....... ONE DAY AT A TIME!

Thats the only way you can cope.

Regardless of other opinions, these were our babies. A human life is a human life regardless how small. I talked to my twins.... told them off when they were cramping me "come on settle down you two... there s no need for that"

I ve been told that its "nature s way". I ve read that things werent going to "progress nicely" and all sorts of other ways of basically saying that I would have not had healthy babies. I understand all that, but they are still my babies just as their older brothers are my babies.

There is one thing I found if it makes it any easier for you. ALLOW yourself to grieve. DO NOT allow other peoples opinions on how you should be coping even enter your train of thought. Find a way of grieving for your baby and then emotionally you will be able to move forward.... but still ONE DAY AT A TIME!

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