Abbey, I was gonna say the same thing as Tempus. You really need people around you now that can support you, not put you down or have a go at you.

And yes, she had a CHOICE. None of us here did. Life is full of choices - you take the right path or the wrong path. Sometimes we don't have a choice and then we have to deal with what is thrown at us. And sometimes that is really difficult.

Sending you a hug. Tomorrow is another day