Dont get me wrong........I loose it all the time. Even today, we went to the shopping center, had to get hubby a new mobile phone, his was falling apart. So we go into this phone shop, same one we use and have used for years, We walk in there and they were talking about being quiet and dont wake him, I didnt think much of it until from behind their counter came a babies quiet cry. Next thing the staff pick up and pass around this tiny baby, maximum 4 weeks. I turned from someone that was there confidently purchasing a mobile to this quiet thing that could hardly open my mouth. It happens, It happens quite a lot, but we learn how to deal with it. It doesnt go away, we learn how to deal with it.

Thats why time is the healer. Over time we lean how to deal with it.