I'm new to this, i've had a read of some of the stories people have posted and i have decided to also tell my story. This really seems like a place where women can relate and understand eachother.

I am blessed to have a two healthy boys, a 2 year old and a 5 year old. I have just experienced a MC after 6 weeks, and i haven't had any support from my family. My husband has been great but everyone else expects me to get over it and i'm told i shouldn't be worried or upset i already have children and that i can have more.

I don't see it that way, yes i am lucky to already have children but does that mean i'm not entitled to feel the loss? What hurts the most is that because we have two children we had everything basically planned for the third. I had been trying for 9 months to concieve and when i did i was over the moon. We were looking at buying bunks for the boys so they could share a room, i was trying to organise myelf at work so that i could perhaps stay home with the baby for a while etc.

So as you can imagine, the baby was good as born. I can't understand why people around me quickly disregard my anguish and tell me i can have more. Who are they to say that? I've had to push people away like that right now because i can't deal with them. All i know is if i don't deal with this how i feel most comfortable, it may haunt me in my future attempts to concieve. Has anyone else experienced anything similar? How did you cope?