I don't have any specific advice on how to react to other people's pregnancies, but I can relate to the awkward feelings. It's only been about 3 weeks since my m/c and I'm still looking for emotional balance. I have a sweet niece that's two months old now. Our little one would have been about 7 months younger than her. I still love her to pieces, and try to focus on that love, rather than our loss.

I've found that I can focus on being happy for the people close to me much better than when I see strangers that remind me of our loss. I work in a hospital, and I was moved to tears last week seeing a pregnant couple heading to a childbirth class carrying their two pillows. Or sometimes it's hard to see other people's little ones in the elevators or halls, especially little blonde children. Any of our children will probably be blonde when they're little, as the tendency runs on both our sides of the family.

Take your time to grieve, healing doesn't come overnight. I try to take life one day at a time, sometimes an hour at a time. Lean on your family and friends that offer good support, and all the good people here. Take care, and remember how many people care about you.