Will this ever end...I want to give the sadness a chance to lift

[scooby]

Lindy good luck with the surgery and i am sorry your having sucha hard time. I know what your saying about having a child already, i think that sometimes too, but really we should be able to have as many children as we want and i hope and pray that you will be able to physically and emotionally have another. Big gentle hugs look after yourself

[chris]

Lindy
I hope the op went well.
It takes alot of time to "get over" a miscarriage.
My complications after my miscarriage were ongoing till last june (9 months after my mc). As I have been told that I have Ashermans syndrome (one of the D&C risks).
Take one day at a time, at times you have to take it one min at a time. I go to counciling. To help me emotionaly heal as I still cry at night and have bad days.
I hope you have a great support network as you will need them.
Big hugs
Take care
Chris