I feel like I am really struggling to recover. I am still very tired - not sure if its emotional or physical. And like many of the other posters here, it appears that my husband is completely over it. He is not enjoying his job and that's all he seems to talk about. We are organising a party for his birthday - life has to go on, I guess, and as he has been calling people that we haven't seen for a while, I hear him say things like: 'everything is going well, we're good, nothing exciting happening' in response to their questions about how we are. I mean, I don't expect him to tell all and sundry that we have had a miscarriage but I have had two operations in six weeks - it doesn't feel like everything is going well to me. I don't want to talk to him about this because he will just see it as a criticism and he really is a wonderful husband.