Freya, Quirky Kids is where Matilda had her ADOS assessment. We took it one step at a time. I felt exactly the same, that someone understood and listened. We couldn't afford everything, but we did the ADOS, got a diagnosis and then got funding to do further testing..... it was better that way and she understood. We did it within a week of our first appointment. We got %75 percent of the ADOS amount back after the diagnosis. Then we got a health care card for Matilda from the diagnosis and the paediatrician set us up so we found funding and had some help through Autism Australia.... everything else was easy to get help for once the ADOS was done.