Early Kids, DD has a security thingy too, hers is one with a ducks head on a blanket. It's her "duckie" and god help us all if anything ever happens to "duckie". She is good at Kindy now she only has it at rest time and the rest of the time it stays in her bag so that's a step forward.
Honey Aspen. DD has been okay at bathtime but HATES getting her hair washed and she HATES bubbles in the bath. We had a moment last week where I put some pinetarsol in the bathwater to try to relieve her ezaema. Big mistake. She lost it at the bathwater being yellow. I had to pull the plug and start again. Oh and she very matter of factly told me to take the pinetarsol back to the shop!
What a pain that they wont let your DD walk to the car on her own when she is very capable of it. I agree with you that it could be detrimental. I hope you can get a resolution (and that the school see sense)
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