Firstly thank you all for being hear to talk too!

Christy - yes Xander is similar - lets it all build up and then we cop the meltdown. I like your routine, we do similar but I think I might start being a bit more routine about the routine and see if it helps. As for your DH comment I have a friend at OT who's hubby is at the same place, my heart goes out to you. I'm pleased he is getting involved in the therapy - that's awesome

teacher - yes I do want to scream at her but have contolled myself - just. Did I tell you she also went from letting them into the room to making them line up - in week 3 - no notice just a note on the door that said students must now line up in two lines until 8:40, parents must supervise. (I am checking with the school as to policies with this as I think they have a supervised before school place) anyway of course Xander chucked a wobbly becasue they don't line up before school, only after morning tea and lunch. Grrr. Now we get there just on the bell and she is making him get a late note! OMGoodness. Today I got there on the bell, as in the bell rang as I walked through the front gate and the whole class had already gone up to assembly - I just don't get it. Anyway I am rambling, thank you for letting me get that off my chest. We have an interview set up for next week and I'm going to ask the special needs teacher to be there also.

Anyways better go sleep and prepare for the weekend :-)