So sorry Christy I toltally missed your post just read the 1st page then hit post reply....

wow that really is a siliver lining in everything isnt there... Glad you are getting over the worst of it....

Thanks Maz... I know he proberly does have something ( seeing as you picked it up when we meet ) but like you said you only see the good in your kids...

Have to say though he is becoming really nasty with DD1 hits her so hard and if starting in on DD2 if she " annoys " him dont know what to do about that... So dont know if its just coz he is 9 and now a tween with hormons and all or something else....