You are defaintely not letting your little man down. You are a caring mother who is doing her very best.

Ive read some of your posts before and he does sound like a little boy I used to work with who had aspergers. He was diagnosed only at about 7 and half. Yet they were always saying something is not right here and getting in loads of trouble at school. This little boy was the most loving boy and very social, hence why he didnt fit all the tick boxes. I think there are some similar traits but aspergers children can be different in their own ways.

There are places like Asperger Services Australia which if a member, can allow you access to loads of resources. Although from memory there was a free forum as well with a parent and carer section.

As your from SA, have you contacted Autisum SA? The school should have done a referral for him BUT the school system (it its public) is very back logged with a lack of services.

Feel free to PM me if you dont want to make this public info.