My DD1 has high functioning autism. She hugs now, she avoids eye contact with people she doesn't know, and sometimes with those that do. Her autism affects her sensory integration and her emotional regulation. Matilda has lower communication, but is able to communicate with us well. She loves school but doesn't interact socially very well, she doesn't understand some of the imaginative play and prefers to follow a script.

I think as a Mum of an Autistic, I want to provide her the best opportunities in life. I want her to not get so frustrated when the world doesn't align the way she wants it too. I want to help her understand that and help her have tools in order to function.

I was definately anti-label for a long time, but I decided to let myself go, and get her the tools and support SHE needs in order to have a less stressful time in life. YKWIM? This isn't about having a label (although it is helpful for family and friends understandings.... and to chuck it at the horrible people in the shops who have to comment on her behaviour) its about getting access to heaps of resources that help them deal with sensory issues and psychological issues that come up living in a world within a world.

I wish you well on your journey, come and join us in the chatter thread and hopefully we can help you in sharing our journeys.