Ok, so I'm officially hitting the baby name forums for opinions on 2 girl names we like so far...

originally we liked Milla.
Strong and pretty I think... but I'm wondering if it's now becoming too popular. I know this can happen over time with any name, but we're trying to pick something a little different without being weird..

DH really likes Mya... originally i didn't but it's growing on me
Pronunciation would be 'My-yuh'.... i've seen other spellings like Maia but to me that is 'May-yah' as is Maya... and I wouldn't want her to have to correct people on her name her whole life!

what do you think of the two names and spellings? Which do you prefer??

middle name at this stage is optional... but i do like Ruby. Wouldn't use as a first name due to popularity but as a middle name i like it, it's a tad alternative/retro... well, to me it is, anyway

i would love your opinions and suggestions... girl's names are so hard!!