thank you so much for all your input - its so helpful to get different opinions on how people interpret names...

i can't say i'm really decided between them still
one day i think i prefer mya and the next i prefer milla...
but i'd be happy to keep the 2 in mind and maybe when we see her we'll just know! Not due till July 6 so still got time to think about them...

more food for thought: surname is stewart... and as for middle name, i do like 'Rubi' but perhaps a one syllable name would go better?