Sorry Debbie - not everyone - I was generalising - sorry - I guess what I mean is that lot of peoples opionions against controlled crying and giving solids before 6 months are very very strong and it's hard to give an differing opinion

I don't think what I do is controlled crying - what I was trying to say is it is a watered down version that takes Charlie's crys and my instincts into account - I was agreeing with Nickel - in that you have to listen to your baby