Ozzie - He goes to golf once a week because it's his 'him' time. My break is going to work (You can see where the priorities lie to me)
I've constantly told him that if he finds the place a mess that he could help out and I say the exact same thing as you 'It's not just me that makes a mess you know!' which then consistantly turns into the whole 'but your at home most of the time, I dunno why you can't do a little bit every day, it won't get this bad if you do'
To which I say I have 'It's too damn hard when he's this way'
I could honestly smack him so hard in the head sometimes (DH, not DS )
I'm feeling better now. I've been awake for an hour (worked last night and working tonight - DS is with my ILs) and I've done nothing except for get myself something to eat and it feels GREAT not doing anything

~clover~ - Yep, we put the walker right near the back door so he could see me, but I kept disappearing behind clothes so he'd keep whinging.
Thank goodness I'm getting most of the day to myself today (as bad as that sounds)