"Where's my 'me' time? I never get any at all!" to which he says "We get to go to poker" - BUT! Who's the one that's tending to him while we play and he grizzles? Who's the one that feeds him, changes him, rocks him to sleep and usually misses out playing a few hands because they're they one trying to settle him down?? Me! One of the reasons WHY I went to FF (Health issues was the number 1 reason) was because DH had always said 'If I could help with the feeding, then I would help out more' - I usually have to twist his arm to feed him.
Well, the poker seems to be for both of you and NOT just for you to have your own "me" time. As for the FF thing... ya know what I'd do one weekend... get the bottle ready, hand bub and bottle over to him and say .. oh I forgot I have an appointment, I'll be back a bit later... and go!!! Go and have a coffee on your own, have a wander at the shops, get your hair done or something.. just take some time to be with yourself seriously! You can do it and you NEED to do it. You need to do it for yourself, for your DH and for bub.

KimB.. so, so well said hun!!