When I disagree with how I'm raising my child with someone, I remember he is MY child and if someone wants to do something I believe is detrimental to my son, I do not leave him with them.

Cuddling isn't detrimental, but if you're cuddling because you want to rather than because baby needs it - and against parental wishes, then I won't stick up for you. I know you want to do what you believe is best, but I believe cuddling is best and a friend of mine swears by CIO. I just don't let her babysit!