You definitely make sense to me Lee. I don't think its deliberate a lot of the time when people say they are coming over to see bubs, and forget to mention you... I am probably guilty of it myself! But it does just add to the whole 'loss of self' feeling too, doesn't it.

Rory - I can understand what you are saying about just getting back into things and finding a bit of yourself again, and then you have to let it go again!... I will have to prepare for similar feelings come Feb when # 2 is born... as it is I am noticing being pg I am withdrawing again from the outside world and finding it really hard to focus on and be interested in my uni...