Leasha... You are definately not alone matey. My DF works at night so I have no choice in the matter, but when he is home during the day he doesn't help either so I kinda feel like a single mummy.
I try telling him how I feel and he makes an effort for a day or two and then it's back to square one again.
It's really hard seeing your parnter toddle off to bed knowing they are not going to have broken sleep.
Sorry I can't offer any solution hun, but just to let you know you aren't alone in this situation. Take care xx