You are not alone My DH does not get up at nights to help... But when my DS wakes in the night it is for a feed. I dont even change him, just a feed and straight back to sleep.

But, in saying that, he does try to help on weekends with the day nap settling, as DS can be a HUGE pain with that, and he did take a day off work on Monday to give me a "day-off" too.

But, with the nights, I knew going into this that that was going to have to be something I did alone. And every night, I say to DS, as I kiss him goodnight,... please let mummy get some sleep tonight... I am sure one day it will work.