My Dh doesnt get up to bub, infact he wakes me at 6am when he is leaving for work and asks me if lachlan woke during the night.

It is better now as he has been sleeping through, but it was ever so hard when he would wake and feed for an hour at night, my DH would lay there snoring, sometimes i wanted to belt him. It would have been nice if he could just lay there and talk to me. So i know how you feel Leasha

Its hard now as he is working very long hours 6 days a week so barely sees the kids. I was the same at first thinking i had to do everything as he was working and was tired from 12 hr days, but then i thought hang on im looking after our 2 older children plus bubs 24 hours a day, i need a rest too.
So i had a chat with him, and now when he comes home he gives me at least half an hour to go and disappear and have the shower i might not off had all day etc.

sending you big hugs