I totally agree with Onyx too.

Work is the only thing that will give you financial stability. Is there someone who is willing to help with babysitting while you work?
This is one thing I am terrified about when I finally do have kids. DH and I both work full time, but I control all the money and bills as he is hopeless with money. When the time comes for me to stop working, I will lose my independence, and it scares me. I want to be spending my own money, not someone else's.

I really hope you can get something sorted xx