Your child's bank account

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Even if they didn't ask I still can't see what the problem is.
What bad can come of this? It's not going to hurt the child in any way is it? Who really gives a crap if the kid has mutiple accounts? That's not going to hurt anyone either...

I'm with Lulu on this one. My parents have an account for DD in her name, they set it up in QLD and I just took DD's birth cert into the local branch here and they scanned it and added it her account. DD gets pocket money from my parents and that gets put into her account by Mum.

DD also has an account here that I put money into for her.

TBH, I do think you are making an issue out of something that isn't an issue. They want to do something nice for their grandchild. Its not about you at all.

I'm really sorry to hear you DH say your relationship is over because of this. That's very unfair and I hope you guys sort it out.

PS. I'm sorry if I come across as harsh, but you did say you have thick skin