I think that TK1999 has EVERY right to refuse for her PIL's to have her DD's BC for the purpose of opening a bank account in her name, it's not the point it's the principle.

And as it's been said in this thread before today it's a bank account but what will it be tomorrow.

If you knew TK1999 's PIL's you'd refuse too.

T i know you have thick skin and you'll dig your heels in, chin up sister you'll get through this and i hope PIL's realise they are going the wrong way about wanting to contribute $$ towards your DD. Honestly they need their heads read.

And also you are NOT the cow that gave birth to "their" granddaughter, you are a beautiful woman who carried & nutured a baby and gave birth to a gorgeous little princess.

That's just my 2cents anyway