ETA - for what its worth...we dont know what PIL's are like not either...so this could be a build up of years of other things
True Maz, I was thinking about that after I posted. Sometimes its the littlest thing (not that this is little to the OP) things that we dig our heels in over and say ENOUGH!!! It really is a case of the straw that broke the camel's back. I know that I get irate with my MIL about things that wouldn't even worry me if other people did it.