Yea I agree it is very annoying, ans if she has only had one c/s but her hospital is making her have another and yet your hospital would have let her try at least as she has only had one! How are there so many different ideas on what is "right" and safe in the one country! And it so comes down to opinion - one ob tells you that its hospital policy and you can have a c/s or leave and then the midwives you first saw were fine with it and then finally you get someone again who is fine with it!!! Even in the same hospital the ideas on what they will or won't allow is different!