Hey guys,

I know it is early but a friend of mine said to me the other day that she was going to be in the waiting room when i am in labour so she can be the first out of all my friends see the bub.
This actually annoyed me. I don't want anyone to come in until i have spent some alone time with DP and bub and until i have has some rest. I don't think i will be up to seeing people. I also don't want to feel like i ahev to elt them in the room because they have been waiting in the room.
So i was thinking of not telling anyone i was in labour except the people like my mum and sis and DP's mum that i want in the room whilst i give birth. This way i will let everyone know about an hour after the birth maybe a little bit longer as it will take most people about an hour to get to the hospital.
I will ask mym mum to let all my family know as they are all in adelaide and wont be abel to just show up at the hospital expecting to see me.
I just feel like if i give birth early in the morning then i am not going to get any rest because i will have visitors all day.

Sorry for my rambling but her comment just really annoyed me, she didn't even ask if it was ok if she could wait in the waiting room she just told me she would. GRRRRRRR

has anyone else not told people they are in labour until after the birth ? I just don't want to sound like a cow but i also know that people from DP's side of the family or his mums friends want to come in and see the bub people i don't even know!