Did you use any drugs in your birth? DS - no, DD1 - pethadine once at the start, DD2 - epidural
Did you have complications during your birth? DS - the whole thing was a complication pre term labour at 25 weeks but the labour as such if it had been term would have been perfect, DD1 - none except her needing oxygen after as the cord was wrapped around her neck twice. DD2 - about 40 mins after evil epi her heart rate climbed above 230 and she went into distress.
Did you experience any feelings of dissapointment, disempowerment and traumatisation DS - yes but thats only because of him being so prem and passing away as said before my answer would be different had it been a full term birth where he'd be here today. DD1 - none what so ever. DD2 - yes i regret being pushed into an epi would never, ever do it again because of her "birth" i had to have a c-sec and was left feeling a failure and not wanting anything to do with her (PND) as such and found it hard to connect

HTH