See Renee, there are options! I imagine it was feeling like you didn't have any that was more worrying.

I for one have my children in with me - the connections you make as a family are priceless.
You never know how and when you will go into labour too - my DD missed the last one (much to her disgust) as she had to stay home and look after DS as it was in the middle of the night. She actually called my step-dad and made him bring her to the FBC so she didn't miss out!

One point though - Yvette had enough intervention that she didn't want and if things could have been as she wished Angus would have been there too.